Infidelity can truly tear a marriage apart, i should know I've been married and had a affair and divorced due to a very bad break down of which was irreparably. i feel the only way you can deal with this is to forgive, even as a christian i believe this is the only way forward. I'm not preaching that you should remain married following an affair as if the marriage is irreparable that would be the worse thing you could possibly do, however if you want to move on from the hurt and pain of a bad relationship you can move on better if you forgiven. By do this doesn't mean your going to experience the pain any less. It only means that you are going to let go of the anger and bitterness and the question that you have,and move forward with your life.
I agree with what you have said about forgiveness as I feel for a person to move forward with their life they have to let things go as otherwise it will just tear them apart. I believe that for a person to cheat in a relationship they must have their reasons and by doing it they are ending their relationship. I am not saying that this is an excuse because i know when you are cheated on there is a lot of pain but i firmly believe everything happens for a reason.
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